Your Legacy
For years I worked with my coach and mentor Dr. Joan King. Joan passed away a few months ago and despite having no children of her own, she left behind an amazing legacy. She did this by making an impact on the people she touched. I spoke to her a week before she died and it was clear to me that she knew she was facing her final days. As I hung up the phone and worked through my emotions, I began to examine my own life. If today were your final day, what would your legacy be?
In my book, Adjust Your Sails, I discuss the idea hearing your own eulogy. What would those closest to you say about you? What are some of the key points that would be a part of that eulogy? Are you happy with what you hear? Have you become the person for which you want to be remembered?
Now I want you think about what you would like to be added? Make a written list of these things.
Next think about how you would bring about those things you have identified. What could you begin to do today that would get you closer to having those items said spoken about you.
I often discuss ideas on how to manifest the material things or the lifestyle you want for yourself. While lifestyle is important, I view your legacy as being a higher priority. Legacy goes to character, your treatment of others, and how you live your life. Do you want to be remembered for what you did, or who you were? Is the person you are more important to you than what you do for a living, or the material goods that you own?
None of us knows when our last day will be. Get clear about your legacy and what you want for yourself. Tune yourself to this mindset each day and live your life to fulfill this vision.