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Lifelong Education

lori for blog 1.30.16At the end of this year my 10-year old daughter will graduate from elementary school. The school has a formal ceremony and people make it a big deal. I struggle with the significance because in the US you have no choice but to continue beyond fifth grade. We’re celebrating an accomplishment that every single child has to fulfill. When fall comes, sixth grade will start and she will continue her learning.
In my mind, graduation from high school or college is a real accomplishment because not everyone does it. For many people it marks the end of learning. I would argue that graduation from your highest level of education can mean the end of formal classroom training, but we must always continue to learn.…

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Posted by Joel Brookman in life-long students, success, win people over.

Listening Skills

Listening skills are incredibly important both in personal and business life. If you want to improve your relationship with your significant other, do a better job of listening. If you want to retain your best employees, listen to them. Even if you consider yourself to be a good listener, you can get better.

Let’s begin by looking at four levels of listening.

1. Selective listening—this is where are only tuning into part of what someone is saying. You lack focus. You could be uninterested, multitasking, or in a low energy state. In some cases you may just be pretending to listen.…

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Posted by Joel Brookman in listen, win people over.

#319 Active Listening

90SecondNavigator-AlbumArt If you want to win people over practice active listening. Here are some thoughts to get you started.…

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Posted by Joel Brookman in listen, Podcasts, tune in to people, win people over.

#268 Stay in Touch

90SecondNavigator-AlbumArt Relationships require cultivation. Stay in touch with those whom you’ve built a relationship.…

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Posted by Joel Brookman in Communication, Create habits, Podcasts, win people over.

#262 Have to Be Right?

90SecondNavigator-AlbumArt You know those people that always have to be right? What if you let them?…

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Posted by Joel Brookman in judgement, Podcasts, win people over.

Respect Everyone

I was on a flight from New York to Palm Beach last week and had the benefit of sitting next to a successful business owner named Steve. From the moment I got to the seat I could tell he was great guy. It actually had little to do with me initially and everything to do with how he treated our flight attendant. We got into a discussion about the treatment of others, specifically those individuals that some people would consider beneath them. He went on to tell me about his business and the fact that he has tremendous loyalty from his employees.…

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Posted by Joel Brookman in listen, Respect People, success, win people over.

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