Life Is A Series of Decisions

It is said that death and taxes are the only certainties in life. In truth, you don’t have to pay your taxes. If that is your choice, you just deal with the repercussions. Every decision you make creates an outcome. The reality is that life is a series of decisions, if you don’t like your current situation, make another decision.

I was at a crossroads many years ago, about to make a life-altering decision. I was engaged to a woman who made me crazy. I’m a very laid back guy and it takes a lot for me to lose my temper. But when I was with her, I found myself angry and explosive almost daily. She just knew how to “push my buttons.”

All of the wedding plans were in place. One day while speaking with a friend, he asked me why I was going through with the wedding. I responded that I thought she was attractive, would make a good mother, and played the role of the corporate wife very well. When I finished with my laundry list, he asked me if I was buying a car or making a life-long commitment to my soul mate. It was at that moment I realized I had to make another decision. When I got back to my house, the invitations were stacked on the coffee table. I looked at my fiance’ and told her I wasn’t ready. She gave me an ultimatum: “Either we get married in two months or not at all.” Then she handed me the engagement ring. I put the ring in my pocket, called off the wedding and ended the relationship. It was the best decision I ever made.

It was at that point I realized that we always have a choice. Life is a series of decisions. There are consequences associated with each one, but life is meant to be enjoyed. If you are unhappy in your current relationship or job, make another decision. It’s ok to change your mind. What worked for you in the past may no longer serve you.